Fay Kanin

1917 – 2013

by Harriet Reisen

Over a sixty-year career as a writer, actor, coproducer, and activist, Fay Kanin was awarded several Emmys and Peabodys, the ACLU Bill of Rights Award, the Crystal Award from Women in Film, the Burning Bush Award from the University of Judaism, and nominations for Oscar and Tony awards. She served as President of the Motion Picture Academy for an unprecedented four terms (1983-1988).

Born Fay Mitchell in New York City in a year she never disclosed, her parents, American-born Reform Jews, were Bessie Kaiser Mitchell, a housewife and activist, and David Mitchell, whose work managing small department stores took the family to Elmira, New York.

Resourceful and fearless, Fay was enchanted by films and performers. An only child, she benefited from her parents’ encouragement but “grew up fast,” mediating in their unhappy marriage.

At age twelve, she won a state spelling contest and met New York governor Franklin D. Roosevelt. She was “smitten” with both Roosevelts, who maintained a connection with her. Although too young to vote, Kanin was a speaker for FDR in the 1932 presidential campaign and afterward visited the Roosevelts at the White House.

At Elmira College, Fay “joined any activity involving words” (including radio). After her father took a job in Los Angeles, she completed her B.A. at the University of Southern California (1937).

Soon she became a script reader at RKO studios, where she “stayed on at night to do my own writing. I walked on sets, invaded editing rooms, snooped, made friends. Hollywood was like all your childhood fantasies come true, full of beautiful people having a simply marvelous time.”

At RKO, Fay and Michael Kanin met. They married in 1940 and spent their honeymoon writing a screenplay. Aided by a vogue for husband-and-wife teams (among them Michael Kanin’s brother Garson Kanin and his wife, Ruth Gordon), they became established screenwriters. They had two sons, Joshua and David, who were sent to the Brandeis Camp Institute for a Jewish education.

During World War II, with Roosevelt’s support, Kanin produced a radio series encouraging women to contribute to the war effort. After the war, she wrote Goodbye, My Fancy, a play whose congresswoman hero was modeled on Eleanor Roosevelt. By 1949, Kanin had a Broadway hit.

The Kanin screenwriting team went on to earn an Academy Award nomination for Teacher’s Pet (1957). A frothy romantic comedy, the film also expressed Fay Kanin’s valuation of women’s worth and of civil liberties. Doris Day’s feisty journalism professor character upholds the allure of brains in an era when “sexy” and “smart” were considered incompatible. She treasures free speech at a time when left-leaning Americans were blacklisted from employment. When the Kanins themselves had appeared on “red” lists, they turned for work to Broadway. Rashoman (1957), their version of the Japanese film, became a staple of theater repertory. After some twenty years, the professional Kanin team broke up. “We decided we would have to keep the working collaboration or the marriage. We decided on the marriage,” Fay Kanin explained.

Kanin took on responsibilities for the Writers Guild and, as president of the Screen Branch, sat on the Motion Picture Academy board. With director Martin Scorcese, she led the American Film Institute’s effort to preserve films. Because prevalent Hollywood wisdom deemed women fit to write only “women’s pictures,” “small” stories of character and relationships supposedly unsuited to the big screen, Kanin turned to the new TV movie genre, where a writer (especially if she coproduced) could see her conception realized. She wrote (or adapted) and coproduced Tell Me Where It Hurts (1974), Hustling (1975), Friendly Fire (1979), and Heartsounds (1984), movies featuring women’s lives and issues.

Kanin rightly called her television films “the blossoming of my own personal statements.” As a veteran of a high-risk field, Kanin speaks through the journalist in Hustling, who tells a prostitute, “Everybody hustles. Some of us just don’t get arrested for it.” Kanin, the socially entrenched daughter-wife-mother-partner, is heard in the prostitute’s declaration of interdependence: “It’s okay to owe somebody. It’s good.” In Friendly Fire, Lieutenant Schindler uses the words of the Lit. "teaching," "study," or "learning." A compilation of the commentary and discussions of the amora'im on the Mishnah. When not specified, "Talmud" refers to the Babylonian Talmud.Talmud to speak for Fay Kanin, liberal Jewish-American: “If you save a single person, you save the world.”

Fay Kanin combined a journalist’s curiosity, a dramatist’s appreciation for points of view, and a rabbi’s gift for teaching through the word to interpret her times for a mass audience. Embraced by women as a model and trailblazer, she responded, “I don’t think you think of yourself as a pioneer. I just felt very fortunate.”

Kanin passed away on March 27, 2013, at the age of 95.


The Gay Life. Katharine Cornell Collection, New York Public Library of the Performing Arts; Goodbye, My Fancy (1949); Grind; Rashoman, with Michael Kanin (1957).

Film and Television

Friendly Fire (1979); Heartsounds (1984); Hustling (1975); The Opposite Sex (1956); Teacher’s Pet, with Michael Kanin (1957).


Atkins, Irene Kahn. Fay Kanin. Oral history for American Jewish Committee, July 15, 1980, August 20, 1980, July 31, 1981. Jewish Collection, New York Public Library.

Contemporary Theatre, Film, and Television. Vol. 4 (1987).

Fay Kanin: An American Film Institute Seminar on Her Work (1977). Microfilm, New York Public Library of the Performing Arts.

Froug, William. A Screenwriter Looks at the Screenwriter (1972).

International Motion Picture Almanac (1966).

Kanin, Fay. Interview with Ally Acker. Transcript, Museum of Modern Art Film Study Collection, NYC.

Kanin, Fay. Telephone interview by author, August 21, 1996.

Notable Names in the American Theatre (1976).

Notable Women in the American Theatre. Edited by Alice M. Robinson, Vera Mowry Roberts, and Milly S. Barranger (1989).

Reilly, Sue. “Fay Kanin Throws a Party for Tout Hollywood and the World: She’s Oscar Night’s First Lady,” People Weekly (April 21, 1980): 45.

Smith, Sharon. Women Who Make Movies (1975).


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I was Fay's caretaker until she passed and she will be greatly missed.  I heard so much from people that knew her, how wonderful and hard working she was.  She was loved by so many.  I also took care of her son Josh's mother-in-law after Fay passed... it was my pleasure to do so.  Beautiful blended family!!!  Fay I will miss you always and I will always remember how it felt to be in your humble presence.  Rest in Paradise sweet Lady ❤️


Fay was my wonderful Mother-in-Law. I was married to her son, Josh, for almost 19 years. Fay was the most charming and bright! I actually never knew that she graduated USC at the age of 19 years old until she died. She never bragged about her intelligence. I only knew how smart she was by the way she kept such intellectual conversations. She was a wonderful Grandmother to our two children, Laurel Elizabeth Kanin, now Laurel Kanin Perez, and Jessica Naomi Kanin. They were so blessed to have her as their Grandmother. I will really really miss her. Her last four years were not easy. She lived to be 95 years old, almost 96. Wow! What a life she had. If I could be one-fourth as good of a person as she was, I will be one happy lady. Rest-in-peace, Mom Fay. Love,Vivi

In reply to by Vivian Kanin

Hello Vivian. Such beautiful words of yours. How is your mom by the way. I took care of her for a short time as well, a huge pleasure. Email me for anything you may need for your mom if she is still around. Take care Dear

I served as Ms. Kanin's secretary/assistant in the early 80's when she worked with Mrs. Lillian Gallo in Century City. I do wish there was a way you could get this message to Ms. Kanin and let her know what in inspiration she was to me. I didn't have "Google" at the time, I just knew she was something very special. A legend. Now that I read of her many talents and her hard climb to the top, I realize what an honor it is to have known and served her. At the time I worked with her I only regret I never found the black patent shoes she needed for her Oscar presentation. What an interesting woman.

In reply to by Linda Levinson…

Don't worry, Linda Levinson. Fay had a size nine narrow foot. Shoes were very difficult to find in that size. She was very forgiving, so don't fret over NOT finding shoes for her. I'm sure she looked beautiful in whichever shoes she ended up wearing. Vivian Kanin

In reply to by Vivian Kanin

Ms. Kanin, I have forwarded your message to Linda Levinson. JWA is always pleased to bring people together.

Screenwriter, radio producer, and television producer, Fay Kanin (1917–2013).

Image courtesy of Wikimedia Commons.

How to cite this page

Reisen, Harriet. "Fay Kanin." Jewish Women: A Comprehensive Historical Encyclopedia. 27 February 2009. Jewish Women's Archive. (Viewed on May 18, 2021) <https://jwa.org/encyclopedia/article/kanin-fay>.


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