"The Matriarchs" Review
You are not an adult when you are made an adult symbolically with a Bat Mitzvah, but you’re told you are. The pressure behind that telling—the constant swell of expectation alongside the messiness of reality—is the thing that makes you into an actual adult over years of attempting to live a life that matches the severity of the pressure.
You want to be good, so bad. You want to read what adults read and understand what they understand, so you gather in rooms with childhood friends and play-act grown-up conversation until you outlive your patience and wake up a woman. At least that was my experience.
It’s also the experience of the characters in Liba Vaynberg’s The Matriarchs, which athletically employs six women of the Torah—Miriam (Helen Cespedes), Sara (Anna O’Donoghue), Rivkah (Frankie Placidi), Rachel (Arielle Goldman), Leah (Molly Carden), and Tzipporah (Rebecca S’Manga Frank)—to juxtapose the frantic anxiety of learning to be a woman with the embodied anger of knowing what it’s actually like.
The Matriarchs, running at TheaterLab through September 28, imagines a matriarchal Judaism in which girls and women are the thought-leaders of the story. In this play, men are a non-entity—a taste of their own medicine with regard to the way matriarchs are sidelined in the Torah.
In the first sequence, six modern orthodox girls with matriarch names quip and chide their way through a Shabbos Torah study group, arguing about which of them is “best at Rashi” and which of them will marry Josh Berger with equal narrative weight.
I have long hoped to find art about orthodox women that makes them central to their own lived experiences; a lot of work about orthodoxy is fundamentalist, discussing patriarchy without curiosity about the depth and happiness orthodox women can and do create amongst themselves. The Matriarchs makes doing that work look easy.
Early on in the play, the rhythm and character writing carry the storytelling. I luxuriated in the familiar moments: young girls singing “David Melech” while doing the corresponding hand jive dance moves that I also learned when I was taught the song; fear of giving themselves a kina hora (evil eye curse); and their self-righteous gossip about their classmates, their family members, and one another. Vaynberg and director Dina Vovsi have assembled a brilliant cast of actors, each equally adept at conveying the sweetness and silliness of The Matriarchs alongside its darker and more complicated themes.
Rachel Botchan plays a character simply styled as The Voice, an omniscient mother-creator whose presence is felt even when she is not actively speaking. She tells us exactly what will happen to each of the six girls before we officially meet them. The Voice is a divine framing device, just out of reach, just offstage. The logic of The Matriarchs seems to reveal that God is a woman because women create life. The characters of The Matriarchs interrogate the lot they’ve been given as religious figureheads as well as literal human beings who have been taught since birth that a life-giving is a woman’s duty. The reality, of course, is much more complicated. Vaynberg is incredibly smart about modernizing the plight of biblical women in ways that both deepen the modern counterpart-characters and humanize their canonical experiences.
The Matriarchs really came to life for me in its second sequence, where The Voice shows us adult versions of Miriam, Sara, Rivkah, Rachel, Leah, and Tzipporah gathered on Tzippy’s wedding day. We witness the theory of adolescence become the practice of adulthood; all of the girls are more ultimate versions of their young selves. The unfailingly pious Sara is happily married, though unhappily struggling with her fertility; Rivkah, coming into her queerness, has left the modern orthodox community entirely. Miraculously, Vaynberg’s script balances respect and care for both Sara’s by-the-book, religious lifestyle and Rivkah’s queer, secular one, as well as the conflict it inspires between them. It is some of the most compelling drama in the play, shepherded along by O’Donoghue and Placidi’s grounded, loving performances.
As the characters reap what their pasts have sown, and talk to each other about their problems, they’re able to grow, change, and mature. It is not institutional religion that saves these women as much as community; it is not faith that keeps them connected to Jewish identity as much as practicing and questioning. Vaynberg describes the play’s structure as “Talmudic” in her contextual notes at the beginning of the script, born of differing perspectives that make the parts of a whole even more valuable than the thing itself.
Even as the characters’ lives branch out further, and in more disparate directions (the wedding, we’re told, is the last time all six characters are in the same room), they listen to each other and care for each other whenever they’re able. The Matriarchs imagines a universe where life’s unfairest moments can be made more tolerable through friendship, conversation, and understanding, and a liturgy that can be parsed and appreciated through stories in childhood and experience in adulthood.
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