The whole thing here sounds just a bit pathetic. After all, the Mishna teaches "Eizehu ashir? Hasame'ah behelko." A woman is a woman. If she is not satisfied to be a woman, then she has a problem. Adopting strange un-Jewish symbols will not solve her problem. But it will estrange her from the Torah community. A seder without an orange is like a fish without a bicycle!
The whole thing here sounds just a bit pathetic. After all, the Mishna teaches "Eizehu ashir? Hasame'ah behelko." A woman is a woman. If she is not satisfied to be a woman, then she has a problem. Adopting strange un-Jewish symbols will not solve her problem. But it will estrange her from the Torah community. A seder without an orange is like a fish without a bicycle!