Maya Brodkey is a nice Jewish boi, and the Bay Area Community Organizer for Keshet. When not working for the full inclusion of LGBTQ Jews in Jewish life, she can be found romping with her dogs in the Oakland hills, reading up on queer theory, and listening to bad 80s pop.
A Jewess isn’t like other women – the word alone makes her stand apart. There’s a slight sense of both shaming and warning in the label, as if it’s her fault that she’s different and she should feel bad about it, and also, you should probably stay away from her—she’s a little different, that one. “Jewess” has connotations of too much: too loud, too pushy, too big, too different (or, according to OkCupid, “more aggressive). She doesn’t perform her femininity as well as non-Jewish women for these reasons—while she’s still recognizable as a women, she’s a different kind of woman. Because of this, “Jewess,” to me, feels more than a little queer.